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Monique offers some vague hopes and a lot of commiseration – but admits that she has the same problem, and doesn’t have a solution to it.The question that haunts so many single Catholic women is this: where are all of the good Catholic boys?They're mostly common sense but there can often be a deficiency of common sense when the opposite sex is concerned.Here are 4 common Catholic dating problems, with advice on how to navigate them: (1) The Problem: Catholic circles are small This has many positive aspects, but also lends to a common problem: if you ask a bunch of girls out, you'll end up dating girls who are close friends or roommates and...can get awkward. The Solution: Do ask girls you are interested in out, but don't go so far as to be a serial dater.A man who takes a risk on a woman in a gentlemanly fashion is admirable and courageous, even if we seem a bit awkward as we decline.But trying to save face communicates that you can't take ownership of your own situation and that you value your own ego over the well-being of our hearts.Recently an article I posted about Catholic men and dating went a little viral.
But if you treat dating like a game, then we can't trust you with our time, let alone our hearts.Seminarian-watchers exist in droves, and unless you’re willing to descend on the faltering seminarian like he’s the last X-Box at a Black Friday sale, this probably is not the plan for you.Which means that you end up stuck dating, and if you are a devout Catholic girl looking for a devout Catholic husband the odds are not in your favour.Any reasonably eligible young Catholic man who wishes to get married will not find it all that hard to find a date for the straightforward reason that women significantly outnumber men in the Catholic dating scene.Generally, Catholic men who are seeking marriage have the luxury of choice: they can take a few years to play the field until they find a Catholic girl who really clicks, and then propose. The men can shop around for what they want, and even relatively socially inept Catholic guys often end up hitched to amazing Catholic women.
In my circles, the topic of Catholic dating comes up regularly or, more specifically, the topic of why there is often a lack of dating among young Catholics.